Dear Hokies,

As Thanksgiving approaches and winter break follows soon after, many students are looking forward to taking a well-deserved pause from the demands of university life. For those heading home, this will likely be the first time you will see family since the semester began, and for some, the first extended break since starting at Virginia Tech. For others, whether due to distance, finances, or personal preference, campus may be home for winter break. Whether you are traveling or staying, here are some considerations to help you make the most of the upcoming breaks.

Expect changes in yourself and others

Returning home after several months in Blacksburg can feel different than before. You may notice changes in yourself: new perspectives, routines, or interests that you have picked up since the semester began. Embrace these changes and be patient with yourself as you reintegrate into family life. Similarly, understand that your family may have also adjusted to a different routine in your absence. Keep an open mind about how your university experiences have shaped you and be prepared to discuss them with curiosity and respect.

Balancing time and expectations

Thanksgiving break is short, but winter break can stretch over several weeks. Take this time to rest, reconnect with friends, and spend quality time with family, but also have open conversations about how you hope to spend this time. It is OK to express your need for rest, independence, or personal downtime — balancing your needs with family expectations is key.

For example, while you might be eager to see friends from high school, your family might want more quality time with you. If you set clear expectations early on, you can help avoid misunderstandings and make sure everyone’s priorities are respected.

For students staying on campus

If you are staying on campus for Thanksgiving or winter break, there are ways to make this time rewarding and rejuvenating. Staying connected with family through phone calls or video chats can help bridge the distance and remind you of their support.

Virginia Tech offers resources as well as activities and events for students remaining on campus. Consider connecting with friends who are also staying, participating in community events, or exploring the local area for a change of scenery. These activities can help you recharge and stay connected during the winter break.

Patience and adjustment

For those heading home, reintegrating with family can take some patience. You are likely grown more independent since you left, so give yourself and your family grace as you adjust to being back under one roof. It is natural to feel a little out of step with old routines — approach it with openness, and remember, breaks are about connection, not perfection.

If this semester presented challenges, take this time to regroup and reflect on your academic and personal goals. Embrace these breaks as a chance to assess what went well and where you want to improve, whether in your studies, social life, or self-care.

Wishing you a peaceful and restorative Thanksgiving and winter break.

Warm regards,

S. Mark Sikes
Dean of Students

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