Keeping the peace: A guide for happy pets and houseguests over the holidays

The holiday season is approaching, and at the Virginia-Maryland College of Veterinary Medicine (VMCVM), we know what that means: Homes filled with both visiting relatives and beloved pets. 

While the idea of houseguests might fill you with holiday cheer, your pets might need some time to adjust to the change in routine.

"Our cats and dogs would be absolutely ecstatic if every single day looked exactly like every other day," says Mark D. Freeman, clinical associate professor at the veterinary college. "They don't like change. They don't like things that are new or different."

Before your guests arrive, take some time to prepare both your home and your pets for the upcoming festivities. A tired pet is often a calmer “host,” so consider giving your furry friend some extra exercise before visitors arrive. Setting up your home thoughtfully can make a world of difference — designate certain areas as quiet spaces for your pet and others as pet-free zones for guests who might need them.

Creating a peaceful environment isn't just about physical space. Freeman emphasizes the importance of giving pets an escape route.

"Make sure that your pet has a quiet place that they can go to get away from people when they need to, because when there's a lot of people and a lot of commotion, our pets can get overwhelmed,” Freeman said.

When it comes to introductions, think of your pet as your home's furry ambassador, but let them set the pace. Rush the process, and you might end up with a stressed pet and uncomfortable guests. Instead, keep initial meetings short and sweet. 

Have treats handy, but ask guests to wait for your signal before sharing — this helps maintain the household rules you've established with your pet.

Holiday anxiety isn't just for humans. If your pet shows signs of stress — seeking out quiet spaces, showing less interest in favorite activities, or changing their eating patterns — don't hesitate to seek help. 

Freeman offers practical advice for managing holiday anxiety: "If you know you have a pet that is susceptible to anxiety and nervousness and being afraid, there's nothing wrong with doing some medications through the holidays,” Freeman said. “We do it for ourselves. Why not do it for our pets and make them feel more relaxed and comfortable during the holidays?"

Some practical tips for keeping the peace:

• Stock up on lint rollers and allergy medications for guests who might need them
• Keep your pet's favorite toys and comfort items easily accessible
• Maintain regular feeding and exercise schedules as much as possible
• Consider having guests participate in calm activities with your pets, like morning walks or quiet evening relaxation time

Remember to watch for signs that your pet needs a break from the festivities. This might mean retreating to their quiet space during hectic meal preparations or when the doorbell keeps ringing with new arrivals.

The goal isn't to create perfect holiday moments — it's about making joyful memories that include all family members, whether they have two legs or four. Some of the best holiday traditions can include your pets, from family photos to post-dinner walks.

Your VMCVM family is here to help make your holidays memorable for all the right reasons. Keep your regular veterinarian’s number handy, know where to find after-hours care, and don't hesitate to reach out with questions.  We're here to help your whole family enjoy the season.

Pet-friendly holiday hosting might take a little extra planning, but the reward is worth it: a peaceful celebration that everyone can enjoy, including your furry family members.